I live in the heart of flatbush. Have several boys home for bein hazmanim. Neither my sons, or any of their chaverim from yeshiva, or chaverim from other yeshivos were asked to collect a single penny for their yeshiva over bein hazmanim and so far, not a single bachur has knocked on the door collecting for their own yeshiva. I’m having a difficult time believing the premise of this entire thread.
As for PBA. Consider those terms of endearment.