Reply To: Are these young women nuts, selfish, out of it or something else?

APY, doing one mitzvah does not mean you should not do another one. I do not wish to bash anyone, but just because someone does chessed in large measure, does not exempt that person from other aspects of common menschlechkeit. I am MOST impressed with my friend’s son, a married man with three children, who spent five years learning in E”Y in a choshuve Yeshivah, then remained in Kollel and continues learning, BUT when he sees me, he makes a point fo coming over to me to ask me how my family and I are doing, will open a door for me, and is MOST appreciative if I would do the same for him. being a yeshivah bochur did not change his middos tovos, and it should not change it for anyone else, either. Unless they never had good middos to begin with.