When DF was interviewed on the View and was asked about her 1st meeting with her husband,
she said, regarding that conversation, “I couldn’t focus, and I couldn’t remember a word, after.”
Check it out on YouTube, at 3:40 into the video, “The View, Rejection of Hasidic Jews in Brooklyn. Deborah Feldman Book.”
That’s very interesting, considering that she described the entire conversation in Pages 129 through 131 of her book, which I have read.