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emunagirl; to send you signs… YES

like as answer to a question? NO

How do you really know it is his answer to your question,

or that he answered you? maybe your interpretation

or imagination is wrong.

EG; Questions in halacha you should ask daas torah,

in Mili D’alma a life experienced trustworthy older family member confidant or friend.

usually I wouldn’t suggest asking young friends questions

pertaining to shidduchim or marriage as they are inexperienced

and may lead you astray due to jealousy or maturity.

Sam2; It depends. It isn’t necessarily an Issur of Nichush.

Nichush is if i see this(something specific)it is a sign that i should do this, or that this (something will happen.

What their asking (I believe) is the other way around.

Davening for a sign or siman lad is a not a problem.

Especially when NOT asking for any specific sign.

Just anything to help you feel its the right path.

Give me a siman if i’m doing the right thing.

It’s like asking for divine encouragement.

Though there is a fine line in this area and If one does not understand this difference then they very well may be Oiver

On Loy Tenachshu.

HaLeiVi; Where on earth did you get this from?

Specifically that one cannot daven to HB”H to open there eyes.

the answer not B&W as the question is not B&W either.