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emunagirl; to send you signs… YES
like as answer to a question? NO
How do you really know it is his answer to your question,
or that he answered you? maybe your interpretation
or imagination is wrong.
EG; Questions in halacha you should ask daas torah,
in Mili D’alma a life experienced trustworthy older family member confidant or friend.
usually I wouldn’t suggest asking young friends questions
pertaining to shidduchim or marriage as they are inexperienced
and may lead you astray due to jealousy or maturity.
Sam2; It depends. It isn’t necessarily an Issur of Nichush.
Nichush is if i see this(something specific)it is a sign that i should do this, or that this (something will happen.
What their asking (I believe) is the other way around.
Davening for a sign or siman lad is a not a problem.
Especially when NOT asking for any specific sign.
Just anything to help you feel its the right path.
Give me a siman if i’m doing the right thing.
It’s like asking for divine encouragement.
Though there is a fine line in this area and If one does not understand this difference then they very well may be Oiver
On Loy Tenachshu.
HaLeiVi; Where on earth did you get this from?
Specifically that one cannot daven to HB”H to open there eyes.
the answer not B&W as the question is not B&W either.