Reply To: what's the Torah way of "finding a spouse?"

TO yitayningwut Correct one needs to have feelings towards the other.One needs to feel that one is “in love” with being together with the other.

But “falling in love” is to imagine that this feeling is considered “loving the other” as wanting to give to the other their needs whether its convenient or not.This is a grave mistake as I point out in my other thread.