Send out your manservant on a donkey to find a wife from your family
I agree with you though, “falling in love” is not the way.
Bowwow- I just saw your post…
yitayningwut – there is a difference between being “in love” and “falling in love.” The latter sounds very transient and baseless to me.
Yekke- I think the “love” that our avos had is not the “love” that we understand today. He may have saw her neshama and “loved” what he saw.
oomis1105 – very well put.