What do you mean by you had two role models and they dropped you? A role model can be observed from afar without them really even knowing. Is your mother available to be a role model? Even reading books written by people whose lives you admire can give you a role model.
I totally agree with what BTGuy says, having come from that side of the grass also. There is simply no direction in life without Torah, no lasting goals, nothing to guide us and no role model for life (if that makes sense). Torah is eternal. Going OTD for lack of interest in what religious women do makes no sense because cooking and cleaning are done by goyish women as well.
What kind of excitement are you looking for? Can you find someone in your school who is willing to organize some kind of project/contest for the girls – Shmiras Haloshon, chesed, or something that would interest you and your friends? Try looking within before looking without to find solutions to your problems.