being OTD ISNT FUN AT ALL your parent/child relationship goes down the drain and its a constent donward spiral that leads nowhere good
doing OTD things may look fun but it is plain pysical pleasure at some point the fun is over and you become shocked at where you landed
my friend from elementry also wanted fun and it started with hooka and has reached the point where she hates life has 8 holes in each ear has a smokers cough and comes to shul on YOM KIPPUR with low cut shirts and pants
there are so many gr8t outlets which i have found that are good
like dance lessons ,
voice lessons,guitar,piano,art,painting,baking,acting,roller blading,bowling,karate,self defence(super awesome),and even READING
(nothing personal but sometimes these feeling come from depression nothing hurts from going to counseling or trying some SAFE perscribed medications)
and above all dont DONT do anything that will change your future permenantly for example:tatoo,extra piercing,smoking,drugs etc.
good luck