About the supposed quote from Rav Shlomo Zalman z”l
I believe your are referring to (and misquoting) a psak that was about a public and I think internationally known chillul hashem.
I hope no one posts the details.
The question was not ‘is someone who is mekadesh his daughter a rasha?’ the story was much more complex than that.
but of course by the time it gets to the coffee room it becomes,
Rav SZ said ….
btw this was one of his last psak, He was niftar soon after.
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