Msg91 – The right girl will like and love you for who you are, will appreciate your good qualities and understand your struggles. Most women are very forgiving and want to see the best in the person they are with. But, if you pretend to be someone that you’re not, she will feel misled when she figures it out and you will lose her respect, that’s a big hurdle to overcome. It’s harder to be supportive to someone that doesn’t approach a relationship with honesty. Women are more idealistic, but they are also human and all human beings have ups and downs. Sharing those times will make you closer, don’t be scared of it. That doesn’t mean tell her your innermost secrets on the first or second date, use your judgement and open up at the right time. If she can’t handle who you are for the good and the bad in the short term, how are you going to get through an entire life of ups and downs together? The guys at yeshiva don’t know that much about women or dating, even if they’ve been on a few dates or have sisters most of what they know is theoretical. You probably would be better off speaking to a married couple that you trust for dating advice.
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