I have to say i am surprised at the naivete of some of the posters – excessive drinking would be a more mild example of what goes on in yeshivos ans a lot of more idealistic girls would balk at that even though many guys do not do that once they are married – here a shaila should be asked in questionable situations because not everything needs to be said and some things need to be said at the right time. the most important thing is to makes sure you have a rav or at least a rebbi or a mentor involved who can provide you with guidance on these issue.
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