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Ch”V I don’t mean to knock any boys and of course there are those that sit and learn and have nothing to do with the outside world. Kudos to them!! But they wouldn’t be posting on the yw cr…I assume that neither would want their future wives surfing and posting. I’m referring to the more “normal” (or call them “with it” for lack of better term) guys. Enough has been said about boys learning in isreal though it’s not an excuse for freedom it’s the fact. When you say”Just because it’s normal for boys a certain age to act a certain way doesn’t make something okay” I’m not trying to justify it, just that these are the facts (unfortunately) wether we like it or not and we don’t always do/not do what you might expect from us. This was my point from the beginning that girls just aren’t informed in the reality of a boys life. It’s great that the world has a certain respect and look upto yeshiva bachurim which does give us a responsibility to be better but when reality comes knocking don’t overestimate us.