Reply To: subway seats

I had a situation tonight there was an elter Yid and and elter gentile i wondered which i should give my seat to, of course i felt sorry for the elter Yid but if i showed preferential treatment wouldn’t the gentiles on board be resentful? is it more of a Kiddush Hashem to give the gentile the seat? in the end i tried to give it to the Yid but could not get his attention and didn’t want to leave the seat because i was afraid neither of them would get it, just then i arrived at my stop and the elter Yid found his way to my seat.