computer -“But it’s important to get the proper help to either eliminate the part that is hard in the person’s life, or if that isn’t possible, then to teach them how to focus in the present and ignore what was in the past and what will be in the future and anything that is going on in the person’s life.”
I don’t know if you realize this but most people can’t change their circumstances. I don’t know if you are denial of this disorder -or in denial of anything called mental illness or what.
Your last part, I don’t know if you are aware, is one of the goals of therapy given by a trained professional. So if you meant to say that a kid or adult diagnosed with ADD/ADHD should seek therapy by a trained mental-health professional -this I agree with.
If you meant to say -that they can “just get over it by themselves” -this is utter Hogwash!