Usually for a wedding there is a reply card with the invitation, so the hosts can know how many people are coming for catering and seating purposes. If the wedding is this weekend and The Goq had been invited, they would know that they hadn’t received the RSVP. By this point, the wife would have asked her husband to ask TG why he hadn’t responded and if he was coming – reply cards also get lost in the mail.
TG – I know it is hard to be the one left out. It has happened to many of us. At least you will be free to enjoy yourself on Lag Bo’emer without having to spond many hours at a wedding that you wouldn’t feel welcome at anyway.