I am with Basya’s dad, philosophically. However, if that hinders her ability to have shadchanim redt to her, then he needs to be realistic and protest on his one cheshbon, not on hers. I nonetheless AGREE with him completely. But when in Rome…
Just stop calling it a resume. Call it basic info. It is NOT a job search, and I hate that the entire process has been reduced to a business transaction.