Why do you worry so much about where you’re holding now? See if you both want the same future. Don’t get caught up in these extraneous details like hallel yom haatzmaut and the like. You won’t find someone holding in the exact same place as you. All you need to look for is that you can handle (preferably respect) their present level of observance and that you both are moving in the same general direction. You should know this by the end of the second date.
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