Marriage is a risk like any other aspects in life.. Even in the nonjewish world they really don’t know what they are getting into until they get into a serious relationship..
You can’t be afraid, because that is life. Your job is to do your hishtadlut and leave the rest up to hakodesh baruch hu… He Knws what’s best for us and at the end of the day what is instore for us….
If we do our part he’ll take care of the rest…
Arwsf: don’t say it’s easy for me to say, cause it most definitely is NOT!