What to look for in a guy

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    SaysMe
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    For you, PBA.A serious post (we’ll see how long that lasts).

    “Girls often don’t know what to look for in guys because they don’t understand being a guy. But we know who the good guys are, and we know what characteristics they have.” So from a guys perspective, what should a girl be looking for if she wants a good guy?

    #880261
    yitayningwut
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    Someone who is not a control freak.

    #880262
    popa_bar_abba
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    Someone who is not a control freak.

    Tell us what questions to ask about him, to determine that.

    #880263
    yitayningwut
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    Just ask if he’s a control freak. 😛

    Ask how he reacts when things don’t go his way. Ask if he is a patient person.

    #880264
    147
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    Someone who is seriously looking to get married, and not someone just looking to have fun on dates, but no intention of actually settling down.

    #880265
    bygirl93
    Member

    It really depends on the girl…. but in my opinion she should look at his middos, the way he treats others etc. the way he acts, and who his friends are, what type are they,

    #880266
    popa_bar_abba
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    Saysme:

    You’ll need to ask us more specific questions. What kind of guy are you looking for?

    #880267
    TheGoq
    Participant

    Why are you looking for a goy? oh wait…

    #880268
    mewho
    Participant

    how about looking for a mench!

    #880269
    BTGuy
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    I agree with mewho. If you find someone who is pleasant to be with, then all the other things should fall into place in a compatible way.

    #880270

    BTGuy, my exhusband was not only PLEASANT TO BE WITH, but he was genuinely intelligent, funny and likeable! And abusive.

    He is genuinely sick in the head, and there is really no explanation how he hid it so well.

    I feel scared about people trying to judge others’ charachters in shidduchim. I feel we all go in blindfolded. To some degree.

    #880271
    more_2
    Member

    Marriage is a risk like any other aspects in life.. Even in the nonjewish world they really don’t know what they are getting into until they get into a serious relationship..

    You can’t be afraid, because that is life. Your job is to do your hishtadlut and leave the rest up to hakodesh baruch hu… He Knws what’s best for us and at the end of the day what is instore for us….

    If we do our part he’ll take care of the rest…

    Arwsf: don’t say it’s easy for me to say, cause it most definitely is NOT!

    #880272
    HaLeiVi
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    always, maybe your magnetic field pulled the screws out of his head.

    #880273
    The Rose
    Member

    a light is found primarily in the tunnels of ones eyes ……..see for yourself

    #880274

    HaLeiVi, you are hilarious.

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