far east -“pba and csar- sometimes its not so simple to just “not go” to some places…especially when its a close relative like your brother. And if your not in MS_DC’s situation you cant judge him like that.
That being said, she must have not known better or she wouldnt have eaten the hamburger. I wouldnt beat myself up if it was my kid. However next time the situation arises, be ultra careful and help your daughter understand why its important that she eats different food then her cousins.”
I totally agree with PBA. If non-kosher food is being served and it’s not a formal setting where e/o gets their own portion, then all the food has to be kosher. The child did nothing wrong. A 7- y.o. can’t be held responsible for eating Treif when it’s right in front of them. So either you want to be Frum or you want to be part of your Freye family. If they want a relationship they have to accommodate you in non-formal settings. Blaming the kid for your failure isn’t going to hold water in Shomayim.