csar- you cant compare someone who harms another person to someone who went off the derech. If i see anyone harming anyone else, i judge them.I dont care who the person is, Jew or non-Jew, frum or not frum, yeshivish or modern orthodox or chasidish…. However if a person goes off the derech, thats between them and God, and we have no right to judge them.
It’s precisely this attitude that causes so many to leave the community