“Laughing is good,” it has nothing to do with my comment. We all use the word “shidduch,” meaning matching as opposed to mismatching. Just as we check out the madreiga of the yungerleit to make a good match, we do it with the families too. The reason why a child went OTD r”l hardly matters, let alone trying to figure out who “caused” it. The mere fact that it happened lowers the madreiga of everyone in the home because of things that were said and done in the home. The problem isn’t so far from that of BTs, and here everyone agrees that they should be matched with their own.
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