bemused— ‘divrei chachomim benachas nishmoim”. azus???
First of all- have you actually seen the teshuva of R”Moshe? I have not -although i intend to- and until i see it ,I will keep to my opinion. It is not me who says this about gezeiros- the poskim say that. We cannot -and should not- make our own gezeirus. This is a quintessential gezeira- no fast music because MAYBE we MIGHT dance-and on a subject -aveilus- when we are always “meikel”. so, in spite of your indignation- I will continue to keep to my opinion.