I would imagine that someone whose firstr marriage ended through divorce is in a different position than one whose marrige ended through the ptirah of their spouse.
The divorcee knows what didnt work first time round and therefore now has a clearer vision of what is right for them.
The Alman/almana however may have had it right first time and therefore may find it harder to find that exact replacement (if there is such a thing)
Just my own perception.
Is this correct logic or am I way out?
Hashem should help all singles – whether first timers, divorcees or sufferers through death – find their bashert very soon!