Mod- are you denying the fact that many youths feel resentment to yiddishkeit for this reason that everything becomes assur?
People take perfectly ok things and label them ASSUR. If you do those things then you are looked down at.
In some communities it’s shorts, in some it’s colored shirts, women driving, etc…
When people see that they are from the “lower” group, but they are doing everything 100% muttar, then they become resentful…