I had a lot of out of town friends do this. Some i think it worked better than others. My very good friend came in to NY one time and literally had 7 dates lined up. She is very yeshivish and only planned to date very short and it was getting expensive coming in all the time. Mind you i never dated more than 1 guy at a time, was not for me at all, but it did work for my friend. Yes she compared them but who doesn’t do that? At that point she didn’t ” know” any of them, and she was dating for marriage, lived far away with no eligible guys in her area what was she supposed to do? I am not saying that i agree with the concept or disagree all i am saying is for some people it is easier that way.
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