Reply To: MARRIAGE IN CRISIS

yungerman1andBaalHabooze

Correct.People are focused on their needs and some are too focused.

BUT they are consciously unaware of this.Accordingly they become “needy people” steadily involved with satisfying their needs even at someone elses expense. This is what a selfish person is all about.

The person will not admit this is what is happening since their needs are being satisfied in an unconscious manner.

An unselfish person is someone who is consciously aware of their needs and therefore realises that others also exist and have needs and I have no right what so ever to satisfy my needs at someones else expense.

Simultaneously, they will want to help their spouse get their needs met.