Reply To: MARRIAGE IN CRISIS

yossi z. Thanks for your support

I believe that most people will be unable to admit to what I am saying since they will then need to reassess their marriage which understandably is extremely difficult.

You being a life coach have had personal first hand experience with people in such situations.

A friend told me what he has learnt about marriage from his experience with others and believes,is the correct way how to live

He says when a couple start their married life ,of course they are together.As life expands it is accepted that each spouse goes in their separate ways.

I was shocked to hear this.

In my view, this is exactly what I am talking about.

He is telling me that

EMOTIONAL DIVORCE IS PART OF MARRIAGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I understand that this view is as a result of being in a very difficult situation. On one hand, experiencing that they are unable to be emotionally involved with each other and on the other hand they NEED to remain living together for various reasons which one could well understand.

Unfortunately ,THIS SITUATION,has created a false philosophy that emotional bonding is not an essential element of marriage.This is not an intellectual motivated idea.