Reply To: MARRIAGE IN CRISIS

MorahRach you are right the current situation is scary. I am also feeling it.My intention is to see if there are other like minded people who would be interested in exploring this issue.

I read many articles in papers and magazines and hear Droshos about what one needs to do in order to have a good marriage but, as you say,”it gets forgotten or thrown out of the window”

I believe no one consciously throws it out.They themselves are unaware that they are doing that.This made me explore the concept of “unawareness”.

As PLONIALMONI4 says part of the solution is effective communication.

I came across a book entitled “Non violent communication A Language of Life”. He explains how we are unaware that naturally we communicate unhealthily. One needs firstly to become aware that one is unaware that naturally one communicates ineffectively, in order to solve this problem.I would recommend this book to anyone interested in this topic.