curiosty-I think most boys out there SHOULD have ur point of view in learning.the world was made for men to work to support there wife and family and NOT the other way around!!! the boys who realize this should not be considered more modern or less frum for doing what hashem wants from them (as it even says in the kesuva that a man is supposed to support his wife). of course learning is important and all boys should learn everyday of their lives but they dont have to do it 24/7 every hour of the day . That should only be reserved for a select few people in this world who are on that madrega(level)to really learn and breathe torah. because torah does support the world, but living a kollel life is NOT for everyone and people have to wake up and realize that!!!! hashem gave the ladies a curse to have a hard time having children with pain… betzev teldi banim … and men- bzaos apecha tochal lechem(with the sweat of ur brow….work …to get bread . so why are girls taking both curses on themselves???? Its a mixed up world!! and u are one of those people who are not mixed up so dont worry ! hopefully ull find ur bashert soon! at the the right time to the right perosn – someone who will appreciate ur values and not wish u were learning full time! hatzlacha
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