“.the world was made for men to work to support there wife and family and NOT the other way around!!!”
Actually, originally there was no b’zeias apecha.
Furthermore, a woman gets schar for her husbands learning, and since it’s the biggest mitzvah in the world, by a long margin, i imagine that it might be worth a little sacrifice. And see what the chofetz chaim writes at the beginning of shem olam. Furthermore, one of the gedolei hador of the prev generation said that it is vital to be learning the first year of marriage, as the first year defines what the marriage will be, and it is smart to indocrinate a chashivus of Torah and proper life priorities etc into ones marriage.
“curiosty-I think most boys out there SHOULD have ur point of view in learning”
Because you clearly know better than the gedolim what hashkafos to instill in guys. all systems have their drawbacks, but it takes a gadol to weigh them – i daresay you have no shaychus whatsoever.
“so why are girls taking both curses on themselves????”
Bec it’s well worth it. We say brachah of “shelo asani isha” with good reason too.