I then went on to explain what the “nafka mina” might be if you have two people looking to appear as frummer to each other, as opposed to what A Mamin and I were discussing when only one person is actually frummer than the other.
Man…
Let me get this straight: you think it is ok for one to be frummer than other other? Or it isn’t? a maamin said it is not ok to marry someone less frum than yourself, because then one will be frummer than the other…