Hi all. I am the person this thread was started about. Thanks a lot for all the good advice and thoughts. It was all very helpful but the main problem is I was tolls by a very prominent gadol not to tell my husband what I found on his co outer because he will be so filled with feeling of shame that he will see now way out but leaving the marriage. I told him in a general way that he uses computer too much , mostly at night and for too long and that it seems to me it became an addiction. He will not get help. He refuses. I am feeling like I lost my best friend, the person who was my partner, the man I trusted. I am devastated. I cannot look at him in the same way anymore. He told me lies to continue his bad habit. I always looked at him as a very honest person. Now I don’t. I was told these addictions make them lie to cover itup but that isn’t helping me to feel better. Thank you everyone here for caring and supporting me with your words.
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