toi -“go to an acclaimed chosson or kallah teacher who deals with these matters. theyre way more involved then a rov can be, and they sometimes can be the therapist, too.”
This IMHO, is worse than going to a Rov. All the C/K teachers that I know are just regular people who teach the Halachos.
A therapist who deals with addictions or a Rov (there are very few) that deal with these types of issues are the ones to go to.
Did you know that even MSW’s actually had to go to school for many years to get where they are now? Most are highly qualified.
What qualifications do C/K teachers have?