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PBA -“Men who look at pornography are not suffering from an addiction. Therefore, any anti-addictive cures are stupid, useless, and probably harmful. Using the 12 step program to fight something which is not an addiction is retarded.
I define addiction as when you do something for reasons other than the regular reason.
You might like my definition, and you might not. Psychologists can’t really agree on a definition, but mine seems fairly rational, and a well regarded frum psychologist agreed with me when I discussed it with her.”
You’re a classic example of -“A little knowledge is dangerous.”
Yes, there is a definition of internet addiction, but the wheels of this new definition are churning slowly. You should have kept your mouth quiet because this isn’t the place (YWN) to have philosophical discussions about everything. Tell your Frum Shrink to keep up with the latest as you will see.
People come here with real problems and are seeking real solutions. All you did was throw a monkey wrench into the solutions here for this problem.
Yes, if s/o in the Frum community has an internet problem, the best ones to solve this are Shrinks who deal with this.
And now I’m going to respond to your post. I really wouldn’t waste my time, but all the ignorant people here will believe your posts. This is one of the things some people did at the Asifa -they just called these addicts Goyim, but didn’t offer any real solutions. A filter/recorder is Not a real solution.
I won’t post the whole article, but you’ll see that this internet addiction will be soon classified as an Addiction:”
sorry, we can’t post cut and pasted articles for liability reasons.