WIY – You are so right.
PBA – I’m not sure I understand why you aren’t willing to express your opinion as an opinion and allow room for other opinions. You seem quick to tell a person they are wrong when they are relaying their own personal experiences based on knowledge you gained through online articles, and then call people ‘not nice’ when they ask you to respect a different view point. It confuses me, but the truth is, I just try to avoid it. In this particular case, as WIY expressed, I am just afraid you are giving an out to someone who may be desperately looking for one, but who really needs help.