pool -“what do people think;
If one finds their wife unattractive (after being married for a short while) and it is causing their marriage to wither – is that grounds for divorce?”
You have just proved that there are people out there that think marriage is disposable. My point is Not whether you have to stay married to an unattractive spouse or not. It’s your whole way of thinkng. Almost all cases of marital problems are not clear cut about divorce. Professionals should make this decision with you.
So how could s/o ask if they find their spouse unattractive, is this grounds for divorce? The only question that should be is if they find their spouse unattractive, should they go for marital therapy?!