“Why shopuld it bother you at all what someone else does with their time , etc? “
– Because it is making a cultish minhag that was never existent – not in theory, not in practice (if I’m wrong, then find me the source in Shas and poskim). Outside of Breslov, no one does this nor talks about it.
– That “minhag” is then pushed on others, and so the “minhag” spreads.
– It is supporting people that killed and hate my people.
– It’s a waste of money that causes others to squander money that would have been spent for tzedakah. In other words, ther is only so much money available to the community at large. When some is lost, it’s lost from all available money in the community.