” It bothers me Chizz bec instead of people deciding to work on bein adam l’chaverio during elul, they’re being cholov yisroel and think they are being so holy. when the reason we’re in galus is bec of the way we treat each other, not bec we’re eating hershey bars. get your priorities straight. “
a) the bottom line is that they are working to make themselves better. we are not to judge how or what someone should work on. This reminds me of a friend who was so obsessed with keeping her house clean that she would use a sponge every shabbos to clean her dishes. she knew ti was wrong adn couldnt help it. one day she decided to stop usinga sponge on shabbos. when she told me, i was so happy for her. if she would’ve told someone else, they would not understand the significance.
b)the reason we’re in galus as you so accurately state is because of the way (or lack of) we treat each other. lets start by judging others favorably…