My point was that that’s not the attitude the Torah takes.
Sam: I’m sure you are similarly against taking away the b’chor’s double portion or taking away from the sons to give to the daughters, for the same reason you enumerated — “that’s not the attitude the Torah takes.”
And, of course, taking away from an OTD/rasha child is less problematic than taking away the b’chor’s double portion (or even reducing all the sons portion to give to the daughters.)