The Gemorah brings that r’ yochanan was a shoemaker {sandler} r’ yitzchok was a blacksmith {nafcho} brings story of r’ yehuda going to check on orchards. dovid hamelech telling the chachomim lechi mefarnesi zeh mezu
The Gemorah shows that tanoim amoraim were taking care of their family.
Husband should/has to learn when he has the time & can carry the weight of supporting a family ….. the weight of supporting the family shouldn’t be the wife responsibility. and as mentioned before the chachomim made the husband sign a contract {kesubah} that ” he”will support and feed his wife.