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???????????CR PRINCESS???????????

There is much more to the problem…for one I did NOT say where I moved…I could be in England or Eretz yisroel or somewhere else….that would mean a language barrier!

I can see the girls are nice girls, this girl has been in their class for years and they right now aren’t mean to her but they aren’t EXTREMELY nice to her….they ask how she is and are nice to her…I think she has the problem…yes ive tried standing in her shoes…but like I said its really hard for me right now too! The other girls told me that she has always been a sad girl and now that I have come I have made her life a little brighter. But she realizes that I don’t exactly like her…..

We cant include her out of school since she lives far away, so when our group of friends holds events out of school we don’t tell her or anyone else about it, so they don’t feel bad. She cant be friends with any other girl cuz no offense to anyone here, there is a HUGE barrier between my group/this girl and the more modern girls……

The teachers don’t let me even SIT next to a more modern girl…..

Ive spoken to some of my friends from out of school (camp and from before I moved) half of them think the whole situation is cute that she practically worships me…the other half tell me to drop her…..

But if I drop her I KNOW I will be less miserable…if I do it in a nice way!

Thanks again for following this and showing me a new perspective of the problem…