As with most questions of such serious nature, the venue for discussing this is the office of a Rov that you trust with halachic questions. I’m certainly not one, and therefore I’m not in any league to answer the question, and I gather that most of those who post to this site aren’t rebbeim either. As to “wanting to break the relationship off,” that may be going overboard. The question is whether your cousin needs the information you have received. What she does with it is her decision, and as above, one that she may need to take up with her Rov
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