Don’t ask older singles what they are doing about shidduchim unless you have a specific shidduch in mind or know of a particular shadchan with whom you are PERSONALLY familiar. Telling someone that he he has to get serious about it or that there are shadchanim listed in the phonebook is not only embarrassing, but it is an insult to the single’s intelligence. Also, don’t ask singles where they eat on Shabbos unless you intend to invite them for a specific meal. I’ve been in that situation before and I found it very uncomfortable.
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