Bochrim who have learned to impersonate are those who have an easier time getting shidduchim, but not necessarily maintaining marriages.
Bochrim need outlets and their emotional needs today cannot always be displaced by additional learning. This is where family support and interaction are advantages.
You’re talking about a yeshiva bachur not a seminary girl, right?
teenage boys as a klal don’t talk to their parents about their problems, this is where a rebbe steps in, but if your in town not neccisarily will a rebbe step in because you have your parents to “talk” to