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October 10, 2012 2:19 am at 2:19 am
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MeemaYehudis
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I think you are covered by using the following three criteria to judge a potential spouse: b’kiso, b’kosso, uv’kaaso (how he spends his money, how he handles drinking (alcohol), and how he deals with situations that would make him angry). When I was going out with my husband, my yo’etz told me to see how he reacts in a situation which would upset him. It was very good advice!