Reply To: first date nerves

i think its weird for the guy to give that feedback to the shadchan, and even more unhelpful for her to pass it along to you. its very normal to be nervous on a first date, whats his hangup? and why do you need to know that he noticed? like its gonna make you calmer to know that. as you get more comfortable, you’ll naturally relax and warm up, you don’t need to freak out because after one date you showed some nerves. give yourself a break.