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dhl144 — GOOOD for you!!! You have come to realize that dating should and CAN be fun. The more you enjoy the time spent with your date, the more easily conversation will flow thereafter. It doers not have to be an expensive first date, just something you can enjoy doing together. Bowling IS fun. So are the aquarium and zoo (though the weather is starting to be a little cool for that). I personally always enjoy mini-golf. The idea is to do SOMETHING, not just sit in a hotel lounge (which btw, seems so seamy and unsavory, when one considers the pritzus that typically is going on in hotel bars and rooms). Why would any Yeshivah recommend that type of potentially unwholesome environment for a date?