Reply To: Why are shidduchim so difficult/tiring?!

@little i know : girls complain abt not getting enough dates.. yet their parents are asking such ridiculous questions that then dissuade the parents from allowing their daughters from going out with a guy b/c he may have a flaw in his family/extended family .. or b/c he davens in a certain shul ??

if parents could remember the little detail that its their daughter that is going to be living with this guy for the rest of her life .. NOT them and therefore should be looking at it for her interests not theirs.. ok yes they maybe supporting the new couple for a little while .. how does the material of tablecloth determine if the boy is mature or not ?