shindy; good points, “encourage her husband 2 go 2 learn/shiurim. obligation to take care of herself physically & mentally so she can b there 4 her husband & children.”
It is important for the wife to keep herself clean & attractive, as well
the husband should keep himself neat well groomed.
I know i’m gonna get heck for this, but I heard, that generally speaking,
that the chassidishe women are more makpid on this, whereas the litvishe women overtime are less makpid. There are many exceptions, but generally speaking
they, the husbands seem to feel they let themselves go.
I believe in their defense, if this claim is true, it is not their fault,
because they are usually juggling multiple jobs and expected to take care of kids and run a home, while the husbands sit and learn. Please, NO loshon hora.
just let me know if this claim is false and unfounded, as I feel it might be.